Educating the parent on Styles that build resilience in Children as a panacea for Cultism in Nigeria

  • DARAMOLA, Clement Oladayo College of Education, Ikere Ekiti, Nigeria.
Keywords: Educating, parent, styles, resilience in children, cultism


This paper is proposing a paradigm shift from the usual approach of campaign against cultism to educating parents on parenting styles that build resilience in children. In the cause of literature review the writers discovered that, though there are several parenting styles but the most suitable for building confident adults and have better social skills, higher grades, low rates of substance abuse and less depression than children from either permissive or authoritarian household. The paper concludes that a major difference between the youth who easily confused to join antisocial groups like cults, and the recommends counseling and training sessions on parenting styles in dealing with their children at worship centers and some special social gatherings.

Author Biography

DARAMOLA, Clement Oladayo, College of Education, Ikere Ekiti, Nigeria.

Department of Social Studies,  


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